-- John W. Gardner
excerpts from my own posts at http://pagannation.com :
Well, okay.
There are a bunch of things here that I don't know or can only guess at and perhaps we agree on some of those?
I don't know how person X is as a mother.
Person B has seen person X with her kids.
My fellow wingnut friend C for whom I feel some affection has not observed Person X with her kids.
I will rely on the observations made by Person B-- that Person X is a good mother to her kids.
And yes, I have to agree it is a low blow to any mother to be accused of poor parenting or things similar or worse.
I don't know how many screws loose any of us have.
Is having one big screw loose worse than having two or three little ones loose? What proportion of big screws to little screws determine the severity of the rattling around of a brain?
Even if any or some or two or all of us do have screws loose, is that germane to the original argument?
Is my not being entirely sure of the original argument an indication of too much caffeine [actually caffeine calms me down] or too little caffeine or
an indication of my own brain injury gone awry from fatigue or
perhaps that I've just stumbled into this forum haphazardly?
I don't remember getting born.
A bunch of other people assure me that I was born.
On earth.
So if they are lying, is there a chance that I am a martian viking transplant?
How do I know?
What are my sources?
How valid are they?
Can they overcome my innate strangeness and sense of otherness?
Or, maybe you think I am a whack shack and in that respect as bad as Alan Webster or should be committed or a funny farm escapee or
any number of things.
Here I have to admit that vingnut, whack shack, mental derangement, screws loose, schizo, hallucinating... are just words to me and rather devoid of meaning or threat.
And if you were to tell me that I need "mental help" of some sort, since you aren't my medical doctor I am free to discount that conclusion while admitting that my posting is off the wall.
Yet if you began calling me a Untied [spelling on purpose] Statsian version of Alan Webster [http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/article787073.ece], I am free to examine the evidence and conclude that there really isn't any evidence for me being an Alan Webster [http://www.guardian.co.uk/crime/article/0,,1793469,00.html] in the making.
As Nathaniel Branden would say [badly paraphrased here] what other people think about me today can never be as important to me as what I know to be true about me.
What I am trying to convey here is that as long as PersonX knows he is not as sick as despised scumbag, not as bad as despised scumbag, not like despised scumbag; and there is no legal evidence that he has ever done things similar to the things despised scumbag has done [shudder],
isn't it more important that PersonY and crew know that he is not despised scumbag, as bad as despised scumbag, or like despised scumbag in respect to that sort of stuff?
This is a forum. It is a lively forum and there are some exciting people here yet it is a forum. Whatever mix of people on this forum may like me, hate me, think ill of me, wish me well, don't have many thoughts about me at all, it is still just a forum.
The sun will more than likely rise and set somewhere in the world at some time tomorrow, my dog will still wish for me to take her for a walk and spend time with her, there will still be laundry to do and bills to pay and frogs for me to feed, and so on.
Marian Zimmer Bradley said, "The world will go on as it will, and not as you or I would have it."
Bowing out now,
spike q. whack shack
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To practice self-assertiveness is to live authentically, to speak and act from your innermost thoughts and feelings, as a way of life-allowing for the obvious fact that there may be circumstances in which you wisely choose not to do so-for example, when confronted by a hold-up man.
— Nathaniel Branden
*or on whether or not I choose to defend myself at any given time in a public forum or in real f2f life
*or on people choosing to think less of me because of my choices in this matter.
I don't operate under the same rules or shoulds as you do.
Different strokes for different folks.
Of course it is always acceptable for someone to choose to defend themselves, their reputation, their character, their abilities, their family members...
The operative word here for me is "choice."
There are times when I may deliberately choose not to defend myself. When I choose thusly, it is an active conscious choice. In my own case, my level of self-respect does not dictate my actions or my choices when it comes to arguments and disagreements.
For example, lets' say you or someone here accuses me of being as bad as despised scumbag or a pedohead or another Alan Webster [http://news.independent.co.uk/uk/legal/article752141.ece] or really sick in the head, demented, needing medication, or any other thing. My choice to defend myself or not will be based on several factors.
When I choose to defend myself, my self-respect is not one of the determinants in making that conscious deliberate choice.
When I choose not to defend myself, it is not a sign that my own self-respect is sinking or not existing at a good enough level.
I appreciate that self-respect may be one of the factors for others when they decide to defend their character. It just doesn't weigh when I have to pick which battles I will fight, that's all...
spike
I am a viking vingnut or is that a wiking wingnut
or maybe a ...
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Of course it is always acceptable for someone to choose to defend themselves, their reputation, their character, their abilities, their family members...
The operative word here for me is "choice."
There are times when I may deliberately choose not to defend myself. When I choose thusly, it is an active conscious choice. In my own case, my level of self-respect does not dictate my actions or my choices when it comes to arguments and disagreements.
For example, lets' say you or someone here accuses me of being as bad as despised scumbag or a pedohead or another Alan Webster [ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alan_Webster] or really sick in the head, demented, needing medication, or any other thing. My choice to defend myself or not will be based on several factors.
When I choose to defend myself, my self-respect is not one of the determinants in making that conscious deliberate choice.
When I choose not to defend myself, it is not a sign that my own self-respect is sinking or not existing at a good enough level.
I appreciate that self-respect may be one of the factors for others when they decide to defend their character. It just doesn't weigh [in] when I have to pick which battles I will fight, that's all.
spike
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My intention was not to call into question Person X's ability to parent and nurture her children.
Nor was my intention to smear or besmirch anyone's character in any way.
Actually, my intention was to find a tiny bit of common ground with you rather than to concentrate on our differences.
Perhaps you or anyone may wish to ask Friend C why she said the things she said. Or not as you choose.
It is not for me to speculate upon the actions of another. For me to guess would be mental masturbation. My brain is battered enough from thinking my way through everyday life.
I endeavor not to engage in sorting people into categories such as [opposing camps]. Usually, I will take people at their word unless there is a preponderance of credible evidence to the contrary.
...The rest of my post did have something to do with all of the name-calling, character assassination, labeling on the parts of many of us here regardless of "sides" and alliances-- and other thoughts and observations that flitted through my head at the time that I was typing it.
As always, you or anyone is free to disregard or to place my name on the iggy collection.
If it don't apply, let it fly.
Kyrra,
spike
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Your balls don't itch?
I was just about to suggest athlete's foot cream...I don't see why that wouldn't help itching in damp places.
I will duck now.
spike
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No. I'm saying [that if] you stick your feet on your balls often enough they can suffer from fungus.
Okay now I am really ducking.
spike
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Warm coffee salve applied to the balls will relieve the itch temporarily.
I read that in a book somewhere.
spike
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Regarding Person Z's chocolate balls.
No actual balls were harmed in the creation of this treat.
Had they been harmed, we would have told you so...
Actually, his balls are like fluffy bunnies.
They reproduce, however not on this plane.
The chocolate balls have reproduced themselves on an astral parallel plane of existence, thus we are free to offer you Person Z's chocolate balls for loving and gushing without impinging upon the immoral scrutinies of anyone observing us for fear of us becoming a mob of thinkers and doers--
On the second day of solstice, my lover gave to me
two chocolate balls and a...
spike q. chocolate freak
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Oh goody an assassination.
Two tickets for front row seats please and some popcorn heavily buttered.
Two-four-six-eight!
Who do we assassinate?
Oh what's that? Yuck, no thanks. I don't eat hot dogs and I don't allow my dog to either.
spike
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Quote: Spike, you have been assassinated!
I have resurrected myself with the help of a holy pot of coffee poured onto my smoldering remains.
*Ta-da*
Never better.
Wow. More muscles even.
And I'm thinner and blonder.
Walking along in the woods by the coliseum, my dog brings back a limb-- looks like a right forearm-- of--
oh no it couldn't be!-- Person R!
Crap! Hey everyone, Person R has been assassinated!
Oh what to do, what to do.
Doggie, put down that limb!
spike
Quote:
Here's how it works:
I just assassinated you! You are now dead. Or you can resurrect yourself and assassinate someone else. All you have to do is just post in the assassination forum this entire post...
Okay, I can't tell you who assassinated me, or I'll lose! So, I have chosen to resurrect myself and assassinate you!
GAME ON!!!
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I just assassinated you! You are now dead. Or you can resurrect yourself and assassinate someone else. All you have to do is just post in the assassination forum this entire post...
Okay, I can't tell you who assassinated me, or I'll lose! So, I have chosen to resurrect myself and assassinate you!
GAME ON!!!
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I don't believe that our government has proven itself to be adept at keeping very many secrets secret.
Nope, I don't believe that Bush "ordered" 9/11, plotted it, caused it, was in cahoots on it, or any other thing.
http://www.popularmechanics.com/technology/military_law/1227842.html
http://www.debunking911.com/
http://www.daylightatheism.org/2006/05/loose-marbles-i.html
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I do not believe that President Bush is a puppet of the Religious Right. There are many assumptions about his specific religious beliefs floating around
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A24634-2004Sep15.html
however, I am personally appalled at some of his policies. There is some evidence for the idea that the agendas of the Religious Right are being pushed through the Senate and Congress in the form of various laws.
http://www.theocracywatch.org/
The folks at Theocracy Watch are based from Cornell U.
Call me reactionary or a crackpot or any other name if you will, I care not.
Bottom line for me is I don't particularly care for what is happening to this country in terms of religiosity and how that effects policy-making.
We disagree on this last I am sure and I for one agree to disagree peaceably.
spike
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Yep, well-versed on that aspect.
And opinionated too.
I don't happen to believe that Bush is anyone's pawn.
I do believe that the preponderance of evidence points toward the founding fathers [signers of the declaration of independence] were deists rather than christians
and that furthermore, even if the United States was founded as a christian nation, it does not naturally follow that it should remain so today.
spike
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I like fluffy bunnies coated with shake-n-bake and barbequed.
spike
a wiking wingnut
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I am a viking vingnut or is that a wiking wingnut
or maybe a ...
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...am I growing on you like a fungus?I am a viking vingnut or is that a wiking wingnut
or maybe a ...
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I hear that coffee is a great anti-fungal...
spike q. fungus
Fungi rule. Pictures of fungi altered make great backgrounds for e-stationary.
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Okay, I am not a fungus then.
A mold?
I must be a mold.
That's it! I'm a mold.
[spike goes wandering off in the direction of coffee and happy pills]
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sapphoq on life
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